Writing isn't always easy. The words sometimes come only with force. Sometimes we get bogged down trying to create our worlds. We get fed up when we find out that somebody's already had the same idea. We get depressed, bored, fed up, angry with all the world and with our muses.
We get angry because everything we're writing sounds like crap. We get angry because we feel we aren't getting anywhere.
Well I'm going to let you in on a little secret: we are our own worst critics.
We cut ourselves down time and time again; when someone gives us criticism, we take it to heart and think we cannot get better. That we are stuck in a rut.
But we aren't. Maybe we need to find new stories to write, or new ways to tell them; maybe our old stories just aren't working for us anymore. Maybe it's time to move on to something new, to experiment.
Or maybe it's time for us to realize that it doesn't always come easy. Yes, there is a point where a story needs to be given up on-but if you give up the first moment the going gets rough, you'll never finish anything. You'll never be a real writer.
Even when times are rough you have to keep going. If you want to take writing seriously, you have to treat it like you would any job. You can't just quit when the going gets rough-not if you want to retain your dignity. Maybe your livelihood doesn't depend on your writing, but by giving up you entirely throw away the possibility that someday you can make a living by writing.
We all have hard times as writers; but prompts and other such things are there to keep us going through them.
If you're struggling with writing, take a two day break; but come back to it, and be willing to work at it.
Tomorrow: different things you can do to spice up your writing life.
Writing is in large part a learning process. A writer needs to be open to new things; this is why we have classes and workshops and books about writing. Not all things will work for you, this is true. We're all different. You probably won't find a class that's absolutely perfect for you. A method won't always work.
But if you don't try new things, how can you possibly know? Everything changes; our writing should too. Let's take the example of a well known author, JK Rowling of the Harry Potter series.
People change and grow as readers as well as writers. Though as a child they delighted me, I can't read the first four books of this series anymore; I've grown to a point where they seem dull to me. The writing isn't bad, necessarily, but it isn't as compelling as later books.
JK's writing grows. While her ideas are great, her writing was only mediocre at the beginning; I can understand to an extent why she collected over thirty rejections before finding a publisher for her books.
The seventh book is dark, it's intense; you just can't put it down. You can tell she's grown as a writer by the way she tells the story. It doesn't feel like it's designed for children anymore, or even young adults. With the sixth and seventh book she truly crosses age groups, and this is what all books hopefully will do.
If you're thinking about taking a class, do it; you never know what you might pick up. If you're thinking about trying a new genre, try it. Only with practice, feedback, and experimenting do we grow better as writers.
Of course, this goes into the outside world as well. Our writing is enriched by the experiences we've had, by the things we go through each day. We become better at writing not only with practice and feedback, and experiments in the writing world, but by changing ourselves and trying new things in our own world. By seeing more in life, we can draw on more when building our worlds and when writing in the one we live in.
Try something new; maybe it will work for you, maybe it won't. But that experience may very well provide you with an idea for a great story. The experience of seeing your first real taste of a new culture may give you a little detail to add more depth to your world. It's not guaranteed-but it's more likely that you'll get an idea by doing something than by sitting around on your butt.
Learn something new today. Read about someone else's writing process. Sign up for a writing class. Try a new sport. Read about a new culture. Plan a trip if you can, somewhere not too far but where life is different. You'd be surprised how much changes with only a few hours' drive.
Learning helps you with both your writing and your normal life. Writing is a learning process-and as much as we may hate school (I do), writing is more fun to learn about, and you'll never make it any further than where you are already if you don't.
They say we all learn something new every day; maybe we don't really learn something new every day, but we can at least learn something new every month or two. So go Google something you don't know much about, and see where the internet leads you.
So let me tell you something. School is stressing me out; I'm trying to force myself to go but it isn't working very well. Things at home aren't pleasant either. I'm stressed; so stressed that I've been sick on and off for two weeks now. Nanowrimo is on the horizon.
It's times like these when anybody-writer or otherwise-starts to wonder about all their obligations and if they're worth it. It's times like these when normally I would abandon the blog for weeks at a time; I'm trying not to. It's sort of working. It's times like these when we just want to throw in the towel.
But what do we do? We keep pushing, keep pushing ourselves to the limit every day to do our best no matter how bad we feel. We keep going, doing everything in our power to prove that we are capable people. That we can handle it.
The writer lives this life more than some. We live from paycheck to paycheck in worry; maybe the next one won't exist. Maybe there will be no work. We work hard in competitive markets where we might not make anything. We might just fall on our faces and have to try to pick ourselves up again. It might not even work.
But that is the risk we all take. We all know it's there. And no matter what, we have to keep working. And no matter what, I will keep writing. I will somehow manage 250, 000 words this November. And it will be something to be proud of.
I hope that those of us going through hard times right now-students of any age especially-can push themselves to stay on top of their goals, and to meet them, and to do all the great things, or at least most of the great things that they want to do.
I've got very, very limited computer access right now (as in I only have it at my bf's), so my writing is flopping and so is my blogging.
But I AM alive. Yay.